November last year, my friend’s wife left him because she needed better. They had 3 kids together and she left without them.

My friend begged. His family begged. Her family knowing my friend is a good husband and father begged, His friends begged but this woman wouldn’t change her mind. She said motherhood and marriage has limited her and she needed to explore.

My friend cried. I’ve known my friend for years and I’ve never seen him cry until that period. He cried and became a shell of himself. I had to quit my job and move to their house in another state for a short period of time to help him with the kids. I didn’t mind that they lived in a 1 bedroom apartment. A child needs a woman’s touch and men aren’t wired to care for kids. I would bathe and prepare the kids for school, pack lunch for the 4 of them, do the laundry and prepare dinner. They ate fresh food morning and night with my money. One night, while we were in bed about to sleep, He told me his wife didn’t even do half of what I was doing and I told him it’s because I’m a traditional African woman. I believe women were made to take care of men. That’s our purpose in life. I’m not those feminist that rub shoulders with men. I submit to men and men alone.

Last week, she called and said she wanted to make things right between them. She had even deceived by bitter Facebook feminists who are mostly divorcees who want other women to be live the into believing there is something out there better than marriage and childbearing. The women are even advising mothers to leave their marriage without their kids! What’s a woman without kids? Just 5 months outside, she discovered there is nothing than being under the leadership, protection and provision of a man.

She begged. Her family begged.

I reminded my friend that He’s a king and even at 90, He would still have women flocking around him because He’s a Man and the superior gender. I told him to not be a simp by accepting her. If it’s a woman you want to take care of you and your needs, I’m here. He agreed.

Whenever I see women listening to feminists deceive them by saying marriage and having kids isn’t important, I just laugh. There is no greater satisfaction for women than being mothers and wives. It’s in our DNA and why we were created.

Life will teach you. Men are the prize!