Sometime last week, a guy I had been chatting with for a few weeks asked me out on a date. He didn’t say much about the plan, just told me to dress nice and sent me 30k to buy some of my makeup stuffs.

When he picked me up, I realized he was serious, he had a driver and everything. We went to this really fancy restaurant I’d only seen on Instagram before. The kind where the lighting is beautiful and everyone talks quietly. The waiter greeted us by name like we have been there before.

He ordered a bottle of wine I couldn’t even pronounce the name of the wine, but then smooth and warm. The appetizers came out on big white plates, everything was good. I had lobster and he had some kind of truffle pasta.

That’s my fast time having that. For the main course, I picked the wagyu steak and he got some seafood platter that looked like art. We had dessert too, chocolate souffle with gold flakes on top. The whole thing felt unreal.

Later I found out he spent about 278, 000 thousand on the dinner, gifts, and wine, when I looked at the b1ll. I was shocked. He allowed me takes so many pictures , he was my personal photographer, I posted before I even finished my food. He didn’t complain I was posting and taking plenty pictures.

After dinner, he walked me to the car. He looked at me and kind of leaned in like he was going to
K1$$ me. I pulled back a bit and told him I wasn’t ready. He didn’t say anything, just nodded a little.

The ride back was very very quiet. I messaged him the next day to say thank you again, but he didn’t reply. I tried calling once, then twice. Nothing. Just radio silence.

Now I keep thinking about it. No guy has ever spent like that on me, ever. It felt so nice to be tre@ted that way, but I didn’t want to k1$$ him just because he spent m0n£y. I liked the attention, but I still want to feel comfortable and true to myself. I wonder if I did the right thing.

Maybe I húřț his pride. But also, I didn’t owe him that, right?

I sent him DM he hasn’t even replied, please what do you advice?

Have been regr£tting like why didn’t I k1$$ him ?. I know his office, should I stop by there. It’s been almost 7 days no response. I miss him.

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