Hey young lady, before you say “I do”, check well and ask all necessary questions, to avoid “Had I known”
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So I read this story of a lady working in a bank in Lagos State and doing well for herself

Then marriage made her relocate to Enugu where her husband reside and she lost her job by that relocation, all attempt to get a job failed

Financial wahala sets in as her husband cannot take full financial responsibility, and the lady has exhausted her savings taking care of the family

He quickly thought out a plan

Got an umbrella and POS machine for his wife under the tree in front of their yard 🙈

Young woman, pray that marriage doesn’t demote you from top to bottom

Ask necessary questions, even if you are dropping your job, make sure you have grabbed a better offer before dropping your job

I know lots of women their husbands out of ignorance or stúpidity stopped their wives’ career because of marriage and their wives mumuishly succumbed only to regret later when it’s already too late

I know one who closed down his wife’s sewing shop because according to him, men goes there, after few months he lost his business, then hunger showed them pepper 🌶️

Even if your husband is a billionaire, make sure you are making your small money from your career or business maka adi amama O gwalu O

Some men feel so insecure that they don’t want their wives to work so that no man will see them or talk to them

Akuko, if you like lock her in your closet, what will be will be…

Pikin wey go die go die, even if him mama carry am for hand…this na Igbo proverb!

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